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ext_15194 ([identity profile] hobbituk.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] monthlydiaryday2030-06-12 09:22 pm
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Welcome to our community!

The Mass Observation Project (MOP) is a unique UK-based writing project which has been running since 1981, and before that from the 1930s to the 1950s. Every year on 12th May, people not part of the project are asked to contribute a diary of their day to incorporate into the records.

I did that this year, along with a number of other people, and it was so interesting to see what everyone else did, thought I would try my own "mini" version of the Mass Observation Project, and post a monthly "Day in my life" post on the 12th of each month. Other LJers wanted to join in, and on 12th June 2013 a number of us posted our diary entries. But they were all in individual journals, and what was needed was to have them all in one place... and so this Community was born.

It is open to anyone, anywhere in the world, as long as they have an LJ and want to join in.

Membership is moderated, but posts aren't. If you would like to join, please send a message to the community

The rules are very basic:

1. A diary entry is kept for the 12th day of each month, either typed directly onto the pc or written down in a notebook and typed up and posted later.
2. Posts can be any length, but if you need to scroll down more than once, please put some of it behind a cut!
3. Pictures can be included, but please keep them to a reasonable size, and again, if more than one, behind a cut.
4. Each post should be tagged with your LJ name, the year and the month. i.e. hobbituk, 2013, June.

At the moment, the community is set up to be members only able to post and read, but this may change over time dependant on what the community members want to do. There may be polls...!
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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-31 10:29 pm

So, I've now created a DW feed

for [syndicated profile] chopwood_carrywater_feed. I thought that getting it in my email and on my reading page would help prompt me to call (or email, listen, I have limits) my congresscritters.

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Plutonian #2 ([personal profile] angrboda) wrote2025-08-29 07:41 pm

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Husband made fried halloumi with mashed potatoes, French beans and parsley sauce.

I am. So full.
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anais_pf ([personal profile] anais_pf) wrote in [community profile] thefridayfive2025-08-28 12:58 pm

The Friday Five for 29 August 2025: Trash Questions

These questions were written by [personal profile] spiralsheep.

1. Does where you live have regular doorstep rubbish collections or do you have to take your trash somewhere else?

2. Do you separate recycling? What sort of stuff gets recycled from your household?

3. Do you take things you don't need to charity shops, or give them away online, or sell them secondhand, or ...?

4. Do you pick up litter in your local area, from streets or trails or play areas or parks? Have you ever found anything interesting discarded or lost in a public space?

5. Are there "repair cafés" near you to help mend fixable items? Have you ever been helped by a community repair service or volunteered for one? Do you do any other kind of upcycling?

Copy and paste to your own journal, then reply to this post with a link to your answers. If your journal is private or friends-only, you can post your full answers in the comments below.

If you'd like to suggest questions for a future Friday Five, then do so on DreamWidth or LiveJournal. Old sets that were used have been deleted, so we encourage you to suggest some more!
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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-30 06:54 am

Standards for signing up with ICE are so low

maybe it makes sense to undermine them from within? Oh, where's the sabotage manual when I want it?

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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-29 07:41 pm

Let's just pretend I posted this on International Left-hander's Day

Poll #33546 Left handers unite!
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 41


Which are you?

View Answers

Sinister
14 (34.1%)

Gauche
27 (65.9%)



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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-28 07:32 pm

DW and Bluesky (and probably others)

are now going to block Mississippi IP addresses.

Link to DW explanation

Link to Tedium post on Bluesky

So, yay, piracy and VPNs all the way?

(I fucking hate this timeline, have I said that lately?)
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garnigal ([personal profile] garnigal) wrote2025-08-27 01:07 pm
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LJ Idol: Week 7

Please read Toni the Great’s entry first - https://tonithegreat.dreamwidth.org/8904.html


With full dark descended, Kylie’s sense of dread intensifies. She sees glittering eyes among the trees, hears trees moving in the wind. The reality of camping as an adult differs greatly from the rose-coloured memories of her youth. She remembers laughter and the crackle of fire that drew everyone into its circle of light. She remembers card games, and running through the rain to crawl into her sleeping bag.


She didn’t bother with a fire tonight; it’s too much effort for one person already exhausted by the reality of life. She hangs lanterns around the site for light, but the white LEDs of modern camping lanterns throw harsh shadows and create an ambiance very different from what she wanted when she drove out here. She can see campfires flickering at other nearby campsites though and hear the laughter of family and friends.


When she left this morning, all she’d said was she needed to get away, to be away from all the heavy expectations. But once she arrived, she realized that the heavy expectations followed her. No, even that isn’t right. She is the one with the expectations. She is the one who thinks she has to be the best employee, the best homemaker, the best person. No one else asks that of her. They just want her happiness.


She feels a little thrill when she thinks about Jameson. The 3 dates they’d been on had been lovely; great food, fun activities, and excellent conversation. But then he’d asked her to come to his place, and she’d freaked out. This body, naked in front of someone she was developing feelings for? As much as she feels desire for his touch, she feared his disgust more.


But now? Alone in the dark, she remembers floating and swimming in the Gulf this afternoon, how her body was strong even when she was frightened. 


Her body is strong. It isn’t perfect; she isn’t perfect. But she has the capacity for love, and a good man who is interested in building something with her. When she’d texted him that she had plans to go camping, he didn’t whine that he was being left alone, just said he hoped she had good weather. Told her he was thinking about her. Offered to take her out when she got home and even suggested dates and times that show how serious he is about spending time with her.


She levers herself up from her chair and moves around the camp turning off the lanterns. She’s smiling, thinking about Jameson. She grabs her phone, feeling that little thrill. Letting it make her feel confident, letting the thrill guide her fingers as she scrolls down her contacts to the Js. To his name.


“Hi Jameson. I’m sitting in the dark, thinking about you too. I’m coming home early tomorrow, and I’d love to have you come to my place for dinner. Around 6? I’m really looking forward to seeing you.”


Kylie’s laughter joins the distant laughter from other sites, and her words fade to a soft murmur as she tucks herself up in her tent to talk to someone who could be her future.



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Plutonian #2 ([personal profile] angrboda) wrote2025-08-27 11:31 am

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I. Pictures from my summer holiday have been posting every other day over on my pillowfort. I wanted to have them post between 11 and 12 midday. This is not what has happened. I don't know why Americans can't just use a sensible way to read a clock. Oh well, it's not a disaster. I have enough posts scheduled that the last one will be in end September. Husband also gave me some photos that he took and I'll put up some of those as well.

II. Luna's appetite is yo-yoing a bit. After we came back from our holiday it started getting difficult, and then the other day she had another little hairball, and now she's eating well again. I really think the issue is hairball related rather than kidney issues, but we'll see. She's got a vet visit scheduled soon to have her teeth checked and the vet wanted to try and get a blood sample for her kidney values at the same time. It's easier for everybody, especially the elderly cat, if we can do both these two things at the same time without having to knock her out.

III. Still very motivated about the new bed project in the garden, but Husband says wait until later in the year for a higher chance of success and also because he says after we've had some proper rainy days, it'll also be easier to dig it up. So I'm trying to keep up steam here until I can order the plants and start digging a big hole! I kind of want to order them now just because I'm excited, but since I can't plant them anyway that would stupid. Plant nursery people can look after the same pots way better than I can in the meantime.

IV. Summer holiday has come to an end. Back to work kicking and screaming as per usual. Well, actually, I have seriously tried really hard not to complain too much about it this year, but some grump slipped out Sunday evening and Husband laughed at me.

V. Holly is having a nap on my lap at the moment and she's dreaming something. It's immensely cute, but the twitching tickles madly.

VI. Sunday also marked the return to watching opera from the Met in our little cinema. This one was The Barber of Seville which was very good and funny. I've been listening to bits of it again since. There are a couple of titles in the program for the next season that we would like to see, but some of them unfortunately won't be possible. These are only shown one time, so it's not like you get a choice. Rigoletto coincides with a family event, and Tristan and Isolde is shown on a Friday because it's so super long (5 hours!) AND we already have tickets for the music house that same evening. Neither of us are really up for that kind of marathon! The Met does have it's own streaming service with over 800 titles on it and it's not even very expensive, so we've been considering trying that out.
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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-27 02:51 pm

Wanton and dissipation

Them: If you’re familiar with the meanings of wanton and dissipation, could you please describe them in a way that will help me never confuse them with other words or forget their meaning?

Me: Oh, there is no way the comments to this post are going to be helpful.

And I was half right! I was just about the only person to give the asked-for definition of "dissipation". As predicted, everybody else used the science sense rather than the moral decay sense. What surprised me is that they also all defined the word "wanton" in terms of violence rather than sexual promiscuity.

Anyway, I said myself that dissipation (meaning debauchery) is an old-fashioned term and that I'm not quite sure how I even know that one off the top of my head, but then the next day I was re-reading Ancillary Justice and there it is, right in the first few chapters. Seivarden is in a bad state due to her dissipated lifestyle, and that's the word used to describe it. Huh. (But I think I already knew that word before I read the book for the first time.)

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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-25 12:02 am

I have so many dishes to wash

And I have so little interest in washing them.

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Denise ([staff profile] denise) wrote in [site community profile] dw_news2025-08-26 12:24 am

Mississippi legal challenge: beginning 1 September, we will need to geoblock Mississippi IPs

I'll start with the tl;dr summary to make sure everyone sees it and then explain further: As of September 1, we will temporarily be forced to block access to Dreamwidth from all IP addresses that geolocate to Mississippi for legal reasons. This block will need to continue until we either win the legal case entirely, or the district court issues another injunction preventing Mississippi from enforcing their social media age verification and parental consent law against us.

Mississippi residents, we are so, so sorry. We really don't want to do this, but the legal fight we and Netchoice have been fighting for you had a temporary setback last week. We genuinely and honestly believe that we're going to win it in the end, but the Fifth Circuit appellate court said that the district judge was wrong to issue the preliminary injunction back in June that would have maintained the status quo and prevented the state from enforcing the law requiring any social media website (which is very broadly defined, and which we definitely qualify as) to deanonymize and age-verify all users and obtain parental permission from the parent of anyone under 18 who wants to open an account.

Netchoice took that appellate ruling up to the Supreme Court, who declined to overrule the Fifth Circuit with no explanation -- except for Justice Kavanaugh agreeing that we are likely to win the fight in the end, but saying that it's no big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime.

Needless to say, it's a big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime. The Mississippi law is a breathtaking state overreach: it forces us to verify the identity and age of every person who accesses Dreamwidth from the state of Mississippi and determine who's under the age of 18 by collecting identity documents, to save that highly personal and sensitive information, and then to obtain a permission slip from those users' parents to allow them to finish creating an account. It also forces us to change our moderation policies and stop anyone under 18 from accessing a wide variety of legal and beneficial speech because the state of Mississippi doesn't like it -- which, given the way Dreamwidth works, would mean blocking people from talking about those things at all. (And if you think you know exactly what kind of content the state of Mississippi doesn't like, you're absolutely right.)

Needless to say, we don't want to do that, either. Even if we wanted to, though, we can't: the resources it would take for us to build the systems that would let us do it are well beyond our capacity. You can read the sworn declaration I provided to the court for some examples of how unworkable these requirements are in practice. (That isn't even everything! The lawyers gave me a page limit!)

Unfortunately, the penalties for failing to comply with the Mississippi law are incredibly steep: fines of $10,000 per user from Mississippi who we don't have identity documents verifying age for, per incident -- which means every time someone from Mississippi loaded Dreamwidth, we'd potentially owe Mississippi $10,000. Even a single $10,000 fine would be rough for us, but the per-user, per-incident nature of the actual fine structure is an existential threat. And because we're part of the organization suing Mississippi over it, and were explicitly named in the now-overturned preliminary injunction, we think the risk of the state deciding to engage in retaliatory prosecution while the full legal challenge continues to work its way through the courts is a lot higher than we're comfortable with. Mississippi has been itching to issue those fines for a while, and while normally we wouldn't worry much because we're a small and obscure site, the fact that we've been yelling at them in court about the law being unconstitutional means the chance of them lumping us in with the big social media giants and trying to fine us is just too high for us to want to risk it. (The excellent lawyers we've been working with are Netchoice's lawyers, not ours!)

All of this means we've made the extremely painful decision that our only possible option for the time being is to block Mississippi IP addresses from accessing Dreamwidth, until we win the case. (And I repeat: I am absolutely incredibly confident we'll win the case. And apparently Justice Kavanaugh agrees!) I repeat: I am so, so sorry. This is the last thing we wanted to do, and I've been fighting my ass off for the last three years to prevent it. But, as everyone who follows the legal system knows, the Fifth Circuit is gonna do what it's gonna do, whether or not what they want to do has any relationship to the actual law.

We don't collect geolocation information ourselves, and we have no idea which of our users are residents of Mississippi. (We also don't want to know that, unless you choose to tell us.) Because of that, and because access to highly accurate geolocation databases is extremely expensive, our only option is to use our network provider's geolocation-based blocking to prevent connections from IP addresses they identify as being from Mississippi from even reaching Dreamwidth in the first place. I have no idea how accurate their geolocation is, and it's possible that some people not in Mississippi might also be affected by this block. (The inaccuracy of geolocation is only, like, the 27th most important reason on the list of "why this law is practically impossible for any site to comply with, much less a tiny site like us".)

If your IP address is identified as coming from Mississippi, beginning on September 1, you'll see a shorter, simpler version of this message and be unable to proceed to the site itself. If you would otherwise be affected, but you have a VPN or proxy service that masks your IP address and changes where your connection appears to come from, you won't get the block message, and you can keep using Dreamwidth the way you usually would.

On a completely unrelated note while I have you all here, have I mentioned lately that I really like ProtonVPN's service, privacy practices, and pricing? They also have a free tier available that, although limited to one device, has no ads or data caps and doesn't log your activity, unlike most of the free VPN services out there. VPNs are an excellent privacy and security tool that every user of the internet should be familiar with! We aren't affiliated with Proton and we don't get any kickbacks if you sign up with them, but I'm a satisfied customer and I wanted to take this chance to let you know that.

Again, we're so incredibly sorry to have to make this announcement, and I personally promise you that I will continue to fight this law, and all of the others like it that various states are passing, with every inch of the New Jersey-bred stubborn fightiness you've come to know and love over the last 16 years. The instant we think it's less legally risky for us to allow connections from Mississippi IP addresses, we'll undo the block and let you know.

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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-24 11:57 pm

August by Dorothy Parker

When my eyes are weeds,
And my lips are petals, spinning
Down the wind that has beginning
Where the crumpled beeches start
In a fringe of salty reeds;
When my arms are elder-bushes,
And the rangy lilac pushes
Upward, upward through my heart;

Summer, do your worst!
Light your tinsel moon, and call on
Your performing stars to fall on
Headlong through your paper sky;
Nevermore shall I be cursed
By a flushed and amorous slattern,
With her dusty laces’ pattern
Trailing, as she straggles by.


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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-23 09:10 pm

Washer's busted

The money comes in and then it falls back out again.

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anais_pf ([personal profile] anais_pf) wrote in [community profile] thefridayfive2025-08-21 02:12 pm

The Friday Five for 22 August 2025

This week's questions were suggested by [livejournal.com profile] canuckfetish

1. Have you ever stayed in a hostel? If so, where? Did you like it? If you haven't stayed in a hostel, would you?

2. What is your favo(u)rite airport that you've been to? Why?

3. What is the best museum you have visited on vacation?

4. Have you ever made friends while traveling whom you keep in touch with on a regular basis?

5. Have you ever had a conversation with a seatmate on a plane?

Copy and paste to your own journal, then reply to this post with a link to your answers. If your journal is private or friends-only, you can post your full answers in the comments below.

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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-21 11:27 am

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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-08-20 06:49 pm

Soooooooo

How does one compose an email to say "I got a job offer that seems just on the cusp of too good to be true, but as you and your company appear to actually exist I thought I should contact you and see if it *is* legit before I delete it"?
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garnigal ([personal profile] garnigal) wrote2025-08-19 01:51 pm
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Goodbye Lyra-cat

We bought this house in 2008. We got an amazing price as it was a foreclosure, and we moved in August. We already had 3 cats, and they were always kind of annoying to each other. 

In September, we looked out the window to see a tiny calico race across the deck to hide. 

So then we had 4 cats, and all the annoying disappeared. Lyra brought balance to the kitten caboodle.

We lost the older 3 between 2013 and late 2015, and got another cat in March 2016, adding my mother-in-law's cat for a few months as well when she moved into a retirement building.

Lyra was 17, and getting quite frail. I knew she wasn't long for this world, but on Thursday she fell. She was moving awkwardly and slowly after that, and went to rest in her cat bed. An hour or two later, I noticed she was breathing quite shallowly, and she died in Derek's arms just after midnight.

It was a very sad couple of days, followed by a busy weekend. I know we'll heal, but for the time being, my house is a lot quieter.
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Plutonian #2 ([personal profile] angrboda) wrote2025-08-17 01:20 pm

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Came home from our summer holiday yesterday. We had a summer house on Funen, one of the larger Danish islands. I followed my challenge to take more pictures. Despite [personal profile] rmc28's suggestions, no name really stuck. I did do it, though! I took so many pictures and some of them actually came out. Some of them turned out a bit blurry, especially the ones from the zoo. I think I'm a bit of an aggressive zoomer, but I'm only working with my phone here.

I have queued up a bunch of picture posts from our trip over on Pillowfort. The first one posted today, and I've set them up to post another every two days over there. If you want to see them, they're all public, and you can go here: https://www.pillowfort.social/PurplePrimula

If you are interested in your own account, you can use this invite link. It's multi-use.
https://pillowfort.social/users/sign_up?invite=LuuQGZlUVrJq2RByEs85mg